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Sun, 26 Nov 2006
Deconstructing the Cranberry

Had a first chance to see the uncensored cut of *Deconstructing Harry* tonight, and I'm still undecided, though it's pretty interesting to see NY Times reviewer, Janet Maslin was totally tickled by it.

Others were not so thrilled, those in particular who experience a great deal of libidinal distress upon any mention of the "C-word"--something new for a Woody Allen movie.

Novel as that may be, there has been nothing in that to detract from the ongoing, most positive presence of that certain cult following Woody has gained among women film fans of an entirely different sort who experience thrills at each fleeting film frame showing a shot of Woody's bald spot. Needless to say, in case this is the first any have heard of it, this has been going on only since he lost his toupee down the back of a movie seat sometime in the early Eighies.

Back on the negative, or more 'serious' side, there is yet many a reviewer that show a penchant, most odd to my estimation, in making much of Woody's alleged "narcissism". But truly, by so charging him, do they not reveal nary a blinking acquaintance with what that really means? And is this not to confuse such a darkly obsessive sexual pathology as that with the mildly neurotic extroversion (and nothing more) which is the creative engine driving this artist-- whose ego is, in short, "the eggs" which the family of that crazy uncle in the Woody Allen story, "need"?

If you are a woman who makes use, on occasion, of the "C-word" or doesn't mind overly should she hear her fellow woman giving breath to it, but freaks out desperately any time it passes the folds of male lips--okay, there, don't you see, is an instance of narcissism.

A bit of study on the matter would show that clinical narcissism, surprisingly has little to do with the ego, and everything going with other deeper, darker, less well understood regions of the human personality, as it turns out that most of the narcissists you'll ever run into will tend to be the last you'd think to be egotists. Narcissism lurks in a regressive, defensive mode as a protective measure--and there is no critic of egotism more hostile to its appearance than the narcissist.

Woody is an egotist but not a narcissist. No narcissist would ever get caught dead on film in front of the whole world with a big, yarmulke- shaped bald spot showing--no matter what the cult following for it, real or ideal. As vanity is endemic to the complex, Woody would be wearing contact lenses rather than be seen as the sort of "egg-head" who wears glasses. Jokes that turn on self-deprecation are impossible to the narcissist. The insecurity, sense of inferiority and self-doubt that Woody suffers, is nothing compared to the monstrous sort of self-loathing that plagues the narcissist--plagues him or her even to the extent that it must always be concealed from a conscious ego beneath a veneer that is like a mirror reflecting images of self taken from without, from elsewhere to stand as a mask for the detested self within, where a seriously ill-formed truly personal ego is being kept in chains and in the dark.

No narcissist ever dares or desires to stand out in society in the mode of his or her own truly personal individuality. Rather, this is the personality that will find its expression, its talent in acting out a pretended self, whether on the job, in the club, the professional organization, the church, whatever the stage, the role, the expression; by dancing, singing or doing police work; whatever the setting, in the office for doing the business of accounting, or politicking--and it is all done in a mode and after a style that the narcissist sees as being the most respectable or otherwise, en vogue, and recognizable to the rest of society as what's chic, most acceptable and attractive.

No narcissist is ever equipped to go against the flow, to revolt (unless it's in fashion) and when it comes to any sort of identity, per self-image it is always associated with what the narcissist *is* at the level of the biological, the physical, the anatomical, ethnically, as to nationality, sexually, as to gender, and additionally, the social, as to class: there is a world of difference between the person who loves himself, and the other who is in love with himself, her own gender, his own nationality, his race, her social class, his wardrobe, her self and public image. It is not benignly neurotic to be *in love* with the furnishings of one's own apartment, or body, with the appurtenances of one's own gender or citizenship. It's quite more pathogenic: all super patriots are narcissists, every racist and feminist, every immaculately rigid conformist to a religious creed who is *in love* with a Bible or a flag, or stridently partisan political doctrine.

There is something deeply hidden in the psyche of the Narcissist that he fears and therefore loathes, and so by much help, as of gender, of flag, of gun possession, high fashion, the social register, strict practice of religion; narcissism constructs a false ego, a brittle, rigid personality that stands in contrast to a real personality, as a manikin in a store window to the artist who designed it.

The narcissist hates the person buried beneath the veneer, but is so in love with the veneer, the image, the mirror. The mere egotist who acts out, as the attention seeking extrovert is egocentric, consciously--not unconsciously, as the narcissist whose behavior is controlled by the darker, hidden demands of his sexual being, demands (of the libido) which are forever in conflict with the false personality, the social person he constructs, the ego he borrows from without, from expectations of the social ego, or "super-ego". The mere Woody Allen style egotist forever has the sense that his own ego is a nice one, but a persecuted one to the extent his perception is that others hate him, or sell him short, or disregard him because he is short, or Jewish, or Black, or a woman, or because she's bookish and wears glasses, is lousy at sports, likes to go bird-watching.

So, there's really nothing to it when Woody uses the C-word in one of his movie scripts, nor is there any reason that as an artist he should care about enflaming the ire of those rigid narcissists who are so utterly in love with their own self-image as church-goers or feminists, that they should feel so shattered by the word, and thus be so hateful in their reaction to it as to be utterly blind to the possibility that Woody has every right to feel a need to strike back by the C-Word against those very people who would most object to it; those narcissists who blame him for living in such rampant disregard to his own public image; those crazy people who live so in fear of their own sexual nature that when they see it on display in Woody's life and art, have no other desire than to persecute him just as they do themselves, and make him the scapegoat for it, to label him as "loser" and "abuser" or some such, for it all.

Of course Woody Allen loves only one thing more than having every sort of narcissist for the object of his satire--and that is having Woody Allen for it.

So, in spirit of the season, my fellow turkeys; whatever may be the recipe for that particular dressing of neurosis, howsoever spicy and/or exotic that we all got crammed up inside from the guzzle to the zatch, leave us never forget that We Need the Eggs right along with the bread crumbs and the sage.

Happy Thanksgiving to All, and to All a Good Cranberry!

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